Confidence for kids

We all want our kids to be confident and motivated to do their best. How can we support them to develop confidence and motivation as they grow and learn? Children are naturally curious. Supporting children’s natural curiosity and allowing them to explore helps them learn, become confident and develop a sense of self. This helps children do their best both now and in the future.

Children learn through exploring their environment. Babies touch, taste, look at and listen to everything in their reach. As they explore your child learns that they can influence their environment by making things happen, such as making a noise when they bang or shake something, or making something move when they push it. Giving babies an opportunity to safely explore allows them to develop a sense of having control over things around them.

As children get older they realise they can learn from others and begin to ask questions. The endless questions of pre-schoolers can be wearing but patiently responding to your child’s curiosity helps your child become a confident learner and develop problem solving skills. Curiosity and confidence means your child will try new things. As children see that they can affect their world and the people around them they feel capable and develop a sense of having control. Confident children are motivated to try more things. This means they learn more, interact with more people and develop better relationships. This helps their learning now and in the future.

Parents and carers can help children develop confidence and motivation by:

  • Responding in a warm and supportive way to a child’s communication

  • Answering questions honestly

  • Learning together when you don’t know the answers to your child’s questions

  • Asking your child questions to help them think and problem solve

  • Providing a safe, stimulating environment and allowing children to explore freely

  • Supporting your child when they need it

  • Giving appropriate freedom as they develop confidence to do things on their own

  • Showing your child it is Ok to make mistakes

  • Giving your child honest feedback about the good and not so good things they do

  • Encouraging your child to talk through feelings, problems and experiences

  • Praising efforts, not just achievements

  • Showing your child that learning is fun!

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